After chatting with Timshel (my brother) and finding out that they would soon be leaving their abode in England in mid-May, and having just discovered that I'd been offered another scholarship, I decided to him and his family there!!
What we did
I booked a flight from Karlsruhe/Baden-Baden Airport to London Stansted (where I had more than just my privacy breached by the security guard) for Thursday May 4, then another from Stansted to Newcastle in the North where I was picked up by Timshel and Shelley (late of course! No, really it was no problem - thanks for the lift guys). From the airport to Esh Laude (near Durham) we passed the Angel of the North, an undeniably impressive sculpture.
Timshel, Shelley and Reuben were staying at the Paul and Helen Shogren's House (my Godparents). Chis and Clare (family friends) were also staying there at the time in transit between Spain and Australia. It was strange, almost surreal, arriving from Germany to familiar faces and accents and yet people I hadn't seen for ages (Paul and Helen I've only seen once briefly in the last ten year! Chris and Clare have been in Spain for the last few years). We talked for about half an hour before hitting the sack.
On Friday we drove down to York (about two hours) and spent the afternoon there. York's a charming city with half of the city wall still intact. We traversed the wall, spent some time in a cafe and wandered the narrow streets (the Shambles) up to the Minster. We spent the last
hour in the British Rail Museum before heading back to Esh Laude for Friday night fish'n'chips mmm England.
On Saturday Shelley went with Helen into Durham and Timshel and I rode in (about an hour ride). We had lunch and visited the cathedral in which the Durham Symphony Orchestra was practicing (free classical music!!) and climbed the tower. On the way home I broke the chain coming up the final hill and found myself sprawled across the road like fresh road kill. Timshel made me walk to Canada and back to get back to Esh Laude. (it's a joke better told without the explanation - if you want it, email me!). I then went to Mass with the Shogrens (including their 5 kids) and Chris, before returning for a delicious dinner.
After that we continued having a few drinks and a good conversation about important stuff. We also looked through photos and reminisced about the 1995 tour of Australia that the Shogrens, Timshel and I all were a part of.
Sunday morning I slept in before heading to the airport with T&S and flying back "home" to Germany.
PeopleIt was wonderful to see Timshel and Shelley again, and I spent much time with them in conversation sharing experiences and plans. I always enjoy their company and am encouraged by the way they live (Visit their blog: Tales from a family in transit). I also really enjoyed spending time with Reuben, my nephew and Godson, who's now confidently walking
(17 months). Although he didn't remember at first and was quite shy, he warmed to me again quickly and it was a joy to see him again. It was an unexpected and pleasant surprise to see Chris and Clare, who I always enjoy seeing - had a particularly good conversation with Chris on
Saturday night. However I found it particularly good to see Paul and Helen again. This was the first time I'd seen them for any length of time since adulthood and although I didn't get the chance to talk to Helen for any extended period, it was great to get to know Paul at least
on a different level.
GeographyEngland is physically much like I had imagined it. So much so in fact that coming from Germany I felt somehow that I was coming home to England!! Riding through the rolling hills around Durham could have been somewhere around Kyneton (in winter with all the green). The weather on Friday was unexpectedly pleasant (it was actually sunny), but the weather England's famous for arrived on Saturday.
From the air I was surprised by how different the rural areas appear in England to France and Germany. In France and Germany all the farms are neatly organised into squares. In England they're all higgledy-piggledy and all over the place. George Orwell's Animal Farm came to mind as I was flying into Stansted.
A good time with strangers
On my return journey I arrived at the departure gate at Stansted to find a man beaming at me. At first I didn't recognise him. He told says in English (but a definite German accent) "we were sitting next you on the way over". Then I saw his wife... indeed they were. They'd checked in earlier so they could board earlier but they saved me a seat. We got talking (Denglish - aka Germanglish) and it turns out they live just out of Freiburg. They offer me a lift to Freiburg - I accept. I get back to their place it turns out they were just married the weekend before! The trip to England was a sort of honeymoon.
It was a great show of friendliness to a stranger and I returned home buzzing from it. I look forward to catching up with them (Moni and Tobi) again.